carolyn hobdey

Redefining. Selfish.

Life change is possible when you put YOU first. 

No guilt. No regrets.

Life change that packs a punch

Sometimes, life throws blow after blow.

When you’re feeling floored, it’s easy to lose who ‘you’ are: your identity, your self-worth.

By Redefining Selfish and challenging what we mean by self-care, I can help you find the confidence and courage to prioritise your happiness and health. To get back up. To stand tall.

How do I do this? I’ve experienced it all: self-loathing, low self-esteem, feeling lost. Drawing from my own personal story and experiences, I use the tools and techniques I’ve learnt about how to cope with those feelings.

The turning point for me was learning that I mattered. I discovered it was okay to be ’selfish’.

I started to understand what that really meant.  It meant that I prioritised myself.

Prioritising me, made me better.  Better made me positive.  That positivity became confidence.  Confidence makes me happy.

I can show you how to do that too. Even if right now you think you can’t. You can. I can. 

Because once I was just like you.

Redefining S.E.L.F.I.S.H

No Guilt. No Regrets.

Redefining selfish

All the Twats I met along the way: New & updated!

All The Tw*ts I Met Along The Way

De-Twat your life

Carolyn's Appearances

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About Carolyn

Carolyn’s successful career in the boardrooms of some of the World’s largest employers helped her hide a secret: she had zero self-worth.

And her personal life was a disaster.  

Professionally, she was an expert in change management. Personally, she wasn’t managing to change.

When life decided it’d had enough of her ignoring the warning signs, it taught Carolyn a lesson she couldn’t ignore. After losing everything, she embarked on her greatest change project: herself.

Changing her mindset and body, Carolyn has gone from self-loathing to self-love.

Today she works sharing what she learnt during that incredible transformation.

“I once said to Carolyn that I wished I could be half the woman she is. She is inspirational, a natural and truly kind people person. She was my boss, but is now a lifetime friend and I am proud to know her.”

Payroll Specialist

Manufacturing Sector

“Carolyn brings a genuine desire to share her own personal experiences and I can’t personally recommend her enough, as she is clearly an inspiration to many.”

Director

Executive Search Consultancy

“Carolyn is easy to work with and goes the extra mile, particularly when situations are difficult, to ensure understanding. Not one to shy away from the challenging and difficult issues, Carolyn has a proven record of delivering outcomes that work.”

Internal Communications

Change & Engagement Expert, Banking Sector

“My personal results… are that I am more peaceful, content, happier and more able to articulate what I want and need from those around me. I have reduced the impact that negative influences have on my life and am therefore much more positive in my outlook in all areas of my life.”

Finance Director

Manufacturing Sector

“It’s ok to ask for help, you may not recognise what help you need but know something is wrong.
Carolyn has ‘weathered her own storm’ and her empathy and genuine desire to help through difficult times is why anyone in need of rebuilding confidence, becoming self-aware or wanting to find their real self should give her a shout!”

Managing Director

HR Consultancy Services

All The Tw*ts I Met Along The Way

All The Tw*ts I Met Along The Way is Carolyn Hobdey’s story that a million and one women are going to resonate with, laugh along with, sigh and cry with.

It’s a story of growing up, moving on, falling down and getting back up again. Transformation and acceptance, strength and resilience.

Maydey

MayDey is a business designed to help you navigate through change. Whether it’s professional or personal. Or both.

Whatever you feel just isn’t ‘quite right’, we have a process to help you work out why and what to do about it.

3 Stages. 9 Steps. Happy You.