What others say

The Midlife Mistress

Carolyn Hobdey is a remarkable person.  Her self-effacing but quietly confident demeanour immediately puts you at ease, and she is an incisive and intuitive listener.  But don’t be fooled by her gentle, kind and warm approach – she is highly intelligent, resourceful and instantly gets it!  She is clear-thinking and to the point and instils confidence and respect from the outset.  She is charming and tough, in equal measure, and you will get the results you are looking for.

Managing Director

Property Management Sector

Carolyn has gone through enormous turmoil both in her personal life and in her work life. She has got through this tough time with tremendous determination and self-insight. Some of these insights have helped her to develop the nine-step Fathom Framework, which will help us with our own transitions and life journeys.

Managing Director

Business Coaching Consultancy

Carolyn is an individual who I would describe as genuine, authentic and inspiring. Both professionally and personally, she has encountered significant challenge during her life and in my opinion has gracefully dealt with this, with dignity and passion.
In the time I’ve known Carolyn, I’m aware she has experienced many encounters where she’s had to take control and transition her life around. Her resilience and passion for life is clearly captivating and she speaks from the heart.

Director

Executive Search Consultancy

Carolyn’s really engaging and friendly style makes what could be an uncomfortable process feel safe.

Managing Director

Management Consultancy

“after the first session it was obvious I’d get so much more from Carolyn”
Mentoring

“a fantastic resource, offering a new perspective that would leave me feeling positive and in control”
Membership

“for help finding direction and inspiration, Carolyn is definitely worth the time and money” Leaders  Lounge

“a great mixture of talking and practical exercises”
Courses

“Thoroughly recommend!”

Carolyn brings a genuine desire to share her own personal experiences and I can’t personally recommend her enough, as she is clearly an inspiration to many.

Director

Executive Search Consultancy

Carolyn is easy to work with and goes the extra mile, particularly when situations are difficult, to ensure understanding. Not one to shy away from the challenging and difficult issues, Carolyn has a proven record of delivering outcomes that work.

Internal Communications

Change & Engagement Expert, Banking Sector

My personal results… are that I am more peaceful, content, happier and more able to articulate what I want and need from those around me. I have reduced the impact that negative influences have on my life and am therefore much more positive in my outlook in all areas of my life.

Finance Director

Manufacturing Sector

It’s ok to ask for help, you may not recognise what help you need but know something is wrong.
Carolyn has ‘weathered her own storm’ and her empathy and genuine desire to help through difficult times is why anyone in need of rebuilding confidence, becoming self-aware or wanting to find their real self should give her a shout!

Managing Director

HR Consultancy Services

I once said to Carolyn that I wished I could be half the woman she is. She is inspirational, a natural and truly kind people person. She was my boss, but is now a lifetime friend and I am proud to know her.

Payroll Specialist

Manufacturing Sector

The first thing that springs to mind when I think of Carolyn is passion…she puts her heart into everything she does. Her boundless energy and enthusiasm is borne of a real desire to help people make a lasting difference. However, this highly personable approach belies a steely determination and a never-give-up attitude, ensuring that she sees things through to the finish line, no matter how tough the going gets. Carolyn is also a real team player and working with her was infectious – illuminating, inspiring and best of all, fun!

Legal Director

Retail Sector

What has impressed me most about my interactions with Carolyn is her enthusiasm for the belief that everyone deserves to live a fulfilling life through articulating what they want, and helping them find the courage to go after it; for this her energy is infectious. She is searingly honest about her own experiences – both personally and professionally – that have shaped her thus far, but Carolyn speaks about her struggles and heartbreak with gratitude and copious humour.

European Transformation Manager

Digital Sector

During our time working together Carolyn has been a fantastic mentor not only to me, but also others.

Compliance Director

Retail Sector

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